My dad passed away last Thursday. Diagnosed with cancer around Christmas, he put up an admirable fight. He was 83. A few months before his 80th birthday, his twin brother, Jack, passed away suddenly. After that I was on high alert and knew our time together was precious. Of course once he was diagnosed I knew our time was even more precious. I think we became closer in his last months – like when I was young and I was his pal.
An hour or so after my dad’s death, my cousin came over to my parents’ and told me, “Look for the signs.” She told me a story about her dad, my uncle Tommy, and a rainbow she once saw. Shortly after her story it began pouring, then the most complete and beautiful rainbow appeared. The rainbow was perfectly placed for us to see from my parents’ terrace. My mouth dropped open. A few days later someone on facebook commented, “The rainbow means he arrived safely.” 🙂
I tell my kids that I cry because I was lucky enough to have such a great dad. Apparently others thought he was great too – the line at the wake went out the doors of the funeral home and down the block! Dad wouldn’t have believed it. The outpouring of love from family and friends has been amazing and has made this sad time easier for all of us.
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Sorry for your loss.
Thank you Damita
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad’s passing, Eileen. Time with our loved ones is so precious indeed. My mom and dad passed in their 50s and 60’s…Sending love and hugs your way. ❤
Thank you Sibella. I know how lucky we were to have him that long! 🙂
Sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace.
Thank you so much
So sorry to hear this, Eileen. Sounds like an amazing and well-loved man. Sending you much love.
Thank you Charlie 🙂
I am sorry for your loss.
Thank you Martha
So sorry for your loss Eileen. So grateful for your rainbow. So happy you had such a great dad to remember. Loving hugs.
Thank you Jodi ❤️
So sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself …hugs.
Thank you Carol 💕
Thank you Carmel!
My sincerest condolences to you and your family. I am glad you had such great times with your dad and hope all the loving memories will help ease your sorrow.
Thank you so much Carol
Yes, sad news, I’m so sorry.
Thanks for sharing the beautiful rainbow.
I’m sending hugs and love your way Eileen. I’m so sorry for the lose of your dear dad. Your rainbow is such a gift.
Thank you Sharon. I appreciate it so much.
Eileen, so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Thank you Rebecca
So sorry for your loss Eileen. Fathers are very special and your will continue to see signs of him in your life.
Thank you Wayne. I definitely believe that. Like the chess set setup in front of an antique store yesterday 🙂
My heart goes out to you and your family. Sending you sincere condolences and warm hugs of comfort.
Thank you Haunani
Peace be with you and your family. Yes, you will continue to see signs.
Thank you Beverly
So sorry for your loss but what a beautiful sign. Take care, Eileen.
Thank you Laura