My dad passed away last Thursday. Diagnosed with cancer around Christmas, he put up an admirable fight. He was 83. A few months before his 80th birthday, his twin brother, Jack, passed away suddenly. After that I was on high alert and knew our time together was precious. Of course once he was diagnosed I knew our time was even more precious. I think we became closer in his last months – like when I was young and I was his pal.
An hour or so after my dad’s death, my cousin came over to my parents’ and told me, “Look for the signs.” She told me a story about her dad, my uncle Tommy, and a rainbow she once saw. Shortly after her story it began pouring, then the most complete and beautiful rainbow appeared. The rainbow was perfectly placed for us to see from my parents’ terrace. My mouth dropped open. A few days later someone on facebook commented, “The rainbow means he arrived safely.” 🙂
I tell my kids that I cry because I was lucky enough to have such a great dad. Apparently others thought he was great too – the line at the wake went out the doors of the funeral home and down the block! Dad wouldn’t have believed it. The outpouring of love from family and friends has been amazing and has made this sad time easier for all of us.
July 21, 2016 at 3:29 pm
Sorry for your loss.
July 21, 2016 at 4:08 pm
Thank you Damita
July 21, 2016 at 3:33 pm
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad’s passing, Eileen. Time with our loved ones is so precious indeed. My mom and dad passed in their 50s and 60’s…Sending love and hugs your way. ❤
July 21, 2016 at 4:09 pm
Thank you Sibella. I know how lucky we were to have him that long! 🙂
July 22, 2016 at 10:06 am
❤
July 21, 2016 at 3:35 pm
Sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace.
July 21, 2016 at 4:09 pm
Thank you so much
July 21, 2016 at 3:52 pm
So sorry to hear this, Eileen. Sounds like an amazing and well-loved man. Sending you much love.
July 21, 2016 at 4:09 pm
Thank you Charlie 🙂
July 21, 2016 at 4:45 pm
I am sorry for your loss.
July 21, 2016 at 8:48 pm
Thank you Martha
July 21, 2016 at 5:15 pm
So sorry for your loss Eileen. So grateful for your rainbow. So happy you had such a great dad to remember. Loving hugs.
July 21, 2016 at 8:49 pm
Thank you Jodi ❤️
July 21, 2016 at 6:30 pm
So sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself …hugs.
July 21, 2016 at 8:49 pm
Thank you Carol 💕
July 21, 2016 at 8:50 pm
Thank you Carmel!
July 21, 2016 at 8:06 pm
My sincerest condolences to you and your family. I am glad you had such great times with your dad and hope all the loving memories will help ease your sorrow.
July 21, 2016 at 8:50 pm
Thank you so much Carol
July 21, 2016 at 9:56 pm
Yes, sad news, I’m so sorry.
Thanks for sharing the beautiful rainbow.
July 22, 2016 at 8:09 am
Thank you
July 21, 2016 at 10:37 pm
I’m sending hugs and love your way Eileen. I’m so sorry for the lose of your dear dad. Your rainbow is such a gift.
July 22, 2016 at 8:09 am
Thank you Sharon. I appreciate it so much.
July 22, 2016 at 2:26 am
Eileen, so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.
July 22, 2016 at 8:09 am
Thank you Rebecca
July 22, 2016 at 5:08 am
So sorry for your loss Eileen. Fathers are very special and your will continue to see signs of him in your life.
July 22, 2016 at 8:11 am
Thank you Wayne. I definitely believe that. Like the chess set setup in front of an antique store yesterday 🙂
July 23, 2016 at 1:38 am
My heart goes out to you and your family. Sending you sincere condolences and warm hugs of comfort.
July 25, 2016 at 9:05 am
Thank you Haunani
July 25, 2016 at 8:24 am
Peace be with you and your family. Yes, you will continue to see signs.
July 25, 2016 at 9:06 am
Thank you Beverly
July 25, 2016 at 9:21 am
So sorry for your loss but what a beautiful sign. Take care, Eileen.
July 26, 2016 at 8:56 am
Thank you Laura